Sunday, December 10, 2023

Explosion in Mukarji Court


Mukarji Block (R, S & T, Dec. 2014, Photo by Jacob Matthan)

In my first year in college (1960-19661) I was in Mukarji Block Room S2. Mr. Summerscale was our Block Tutor. 

He was a real gentleman and would regularly host us for a cup of tea and biscuits and discuss any problems he or we had. As he was also in charge of the Shakespeare Society, there were regular sessions where a few of the girls from Miranda House would come to his study and there were readings from Shakespeare plays.

I was not really into Shakespeare, but occasionally joined in as he called us to be part of the session. Tony Jaitly, a Cathedralite like me), twins, Roshan (who acted as Gandhi in the film) and former Indian Ambassadoir HE Aftab Seth and advertising producer Zaffar Hai are those I recall who used to be regular participants.

Kundan Singh was my gyp (all three years) and he would make sure we had sufficient snacks for all of us including plenty of  Sukhiya's barfis and samosas!

Transistor radios were forbidden in residence. Mr. Summerscale knew that I had a Short Wave radio and I would tune in to BBC World Service in the late evenings. 

He checked with my immediate neighbour (I think it was Ramani) if it disturbed him. He said it did not, so he let me keep it but advised me to use it with headphones! Occasionally he would drop on on sSaturday afternons to check the sports news. 

I do not think he took part in College sports but he did look like a cricketer!

In our second year, Rev. Luck, a Canadian pastor, who took over from Rev. Jarvis, was our Block Tutor. 

On the whole he was pleasant personality, but he did have a temper, as can be understood from this incident.

I had exchanged rooms with my friend Rajagopalan Narayan, so I was in Room S8, a room on the verandah side. I do  not know why Rajen wanted to change, but for me it was good. (My speculation is conveyed in an earlier blog entry!)

I closed the corridor door permanently and only used the verandah side door.

We had a habit of playing bridge late into the night outside my room on the verandah. Several guys used to come and watch and there was a lot of chit chat after every rubber.

One night we were unusually boisterous. Suddenly, Rev. Luck arrived from the garden side of the verandah. His face was flaming red. He stormed onto the verandah, and without saying a word took the entire pack of cards and ripped them apart dead centre into two halves and stormed off,

Not a word was said, but the message was quite clear. We had obviously disturbed his beauty sleep. 

We all dispersed, all mad at his behaviour.

The next day there was a lot of discussion as to how we should retaliate.

Some suggested flooding his room by connecting the garden hose and pushing it under the door. This idea seemed to excite everyone till I quickly shot it down.

I said it would be pointless as the one who would suffer would only be Kundan Singh who would have to clean  up the mess.

As I was the JCR President and I had the keys to the JCR, we decided that our bridge sessions in the night would be moved to the back room of the JCR. We could use it as late as we wanted. I got permission from Princi Sircar and Dean Rajpal, so was born the Bridge Club of our college. 

Regular players were the Rai twins, Suraj and Chandra, Tich Arun Agarwal, and Swaminathan Aiyar (Economic Times financial correspondent and younger brother of Mani Shankar Aiyar).


Ajay Verma, my bosom friend, when
he visited us in Oulu.


My regular partner was late Ajay Verma.

In the first ever JCR Bridge Tournament the finals was between the Rai twins and Ajay and myself. 

It was cliff hanger and it went to the last deal where Ajay and I bid 7 clubs and the Rai twins bid 7 spades, a quite unbelieveable bid that only the paranormal communication between the twins could call, and they made it!

Rev. Luck could, therefore, enjoy his beauty sleep!

Thursday, December 07, 2023

Dr. Anthony Stone, Memories

 It was a pleasant surprise to receive this email from a Stephanian colleague about a book by Dr. Anthony Stone,  who was teaching Mathematics in college when I was there..

Tony spent a short time with Annikki and me in Oulu many years ago, but then I lost contact till in 2014? I invited himmto attend Annikki’s 70th birthday celebrations. 

It is good to see Tony is still active. 

I have not attached the ”Foreword” as mentioned in the email. If any of you want it , I will happily send it to you. 

If you wish to comment, please contact me and I will put you in touch with Prabhu..


me your sugHeavens 
and Earth: The Story of Astrology through Ages and Cultures , published by Penguin 

 Here are some links where you can discover a bit more about Garima's Heaven and Earth:

Professor (retired) Prabhu Guptara

Board Consultant, Poet, and Publisher
Cambridge, U.K.
https://linktr.ee/prabhusgu

Tuesday, November 28, 2023

Remembering our loved ones

 Dateline 28th November 2023

(Posted on Jacob's BlogSeventh Heaven Blog for Cathedralites and Kooler Talk (Web Version) Blog for St. Stephen's College alumni.

Cathedral & John Connon School 59ers have lost many of our ones in the last few years. 

Here is a partial list of those from our 2969class who have passed on. 

(I do not have any information about our lady classmates except dear Farhana. I hope someone will update me on this.)

Ashok Ruia

Bala Parasursman

Dossu Pagdiwalla

Fali Dhondy

Farhana (Kably) Poonawala

Farukh Kanga

Flicky Shroff

Hasnain Chinwala

Indrajit Shah

Jacob Eapen 

Jack Haskell

 Jaswant Ghatge

Kurshed Balsata

Michael Colaco

Murali Balani

Naubir Mohindar

Pradeep Bhakar

Prem Goel

Ramesh Mirchandani

Virat Gidwani

Trevor Newnes

I have deliberately left out from this list, one of our dearest, who was tragically lost  15 years ago, Ashok Kapur.


59erGolden Reunion Directory

Our Mumbai 59ers met as a memoriam to Ashok

At our 2009 Golden  Reunion of 59ers,  Annikki and I dedicated our Reunion Directory to Ashok with these pages:





But besides Ashok, we lost many others during those fateful days, which has been brought to mind by Rajiv Bhatia on his Facebook page.

26/11
Remembering the late - Ajit & Monica Chhabria, Sunil & Reshma Parikh, Sanjay & Rita Agarwal, Rohinton Maloo, Mohit Harjani, Lavina Harjani, Anand Bhatt, Pankaj Shah, Vishnidas-Nilam-Gunjan Narang, Neeti-Uday-Samar-Kang, Rupinder Randhawa, Ashok Kamte, Hemant Karkare, Vijay Salaskar, Tukaram Omble

I also remember one of my other alumni from St. Stephen’s College with this post from our alumni Facebook page. 

None other than the heroic Ashok Kamte:

Ashish Joshi , the Moderator of our alumni Facebook   page posted this.

LEST WE FORGET

This is what my friend & college senior, Gary (Justice Anupinder Grewal), wrote in the memory of late Ashok Kamte (Gary's batchmate) a brilliant police officer who attained martyrdom on 26/11. Late Kamte was a friend & one year senior to me in the College .

ASHOK KAMTE


I have been attending the annual St. Stephen's College, Reunion very frequently ever since I passed out of college in 1987. However, this year on 14th December, it was drastically different as it turned into memorial service for Ashok Kamte and I was entrusted the painful task of paying tribute to Ashok. 

It was a tragic personal loss as besides being my classmate in college and a friend, I had the privilege of living with Ashok and his family at his mother’s Flat in Hira Mahal on the Amrita Shergill Marg for about year while studying law. 

Ashok had joined us at St. Stephen's College for his Post Graduation after he had Graduated from St. Xavier’s College, Bombay. What stood him apart from the rest of the Stephanians was the enormity of his physical stature, which alongwith his quest for academic excellence was a rather unique combination. What surprised many was why is the National Power Lifting Champion pursuing Post Graduation at St. Stephen's. There is no preference for sports persons for admission in M.A. Little did they realize then that Ashok always strove for excellence, whether in the classroom or the playing field. He had single minded commitment to succeed. He was very happy when he was selected to the I.P.S. He used to say that he was meant for action and disliked other civil services for their bureaucratic file work.

While training for the Power Lifting Championship, he would not compromise on his diet. As his mother would not allow him to have more than two eggs, due to its high cholesterol content he would buy a dozen eggs from the market, cook and eat them at his neighbour's house. He had broken three national records in Power Lifting and won half a dozen Gold and Silver Medals. He had also won the Bronze Medal in Junior World Power Lifting Championship. Power Lifting is one of the toughest sport and Ashok would train for hours in complete solitude. Despite his powerful build, he was extremely agile and could sprint quite fast. Besides his love for swimming and squash he would generate amazing pace and bounce while bowling on the rather placid College Cricket pitch at Morigate. He had played an important role in the victory of our team. 

Ashok was proud of the fact that he had the blood of two Martial Races the Maratha’s and the Sikhs. While his father is a retired Colonel settled in Pune, his grand-father was in the Imperial Police. His mother Mrs. Paramjit Kamte,, who now lives in Gulmohar Park is from the well known Bawa Family of Goindwal Sahib and is grand-daughter of Late Bawa Budh Singh of the Indian Service of Engineers. Bawa Budh Singh was the 14th descendent of the Third Sikh Guru, Guru Amar Dass. When I called on Mrs. Kamte, she said that though she is proud of the fact that Ashok has become a National Hero yet at times she cannot comprehend that he is no more. He was the only male member in the family whom she could look forward in times of need. He had perhaps inherited his very fair features from his maternal grandmother Mrs.Surinder Bawa (maiden name Violet) an English Lady. His sister, Sharmila, a well known model and a ballet dancer, now runs her famous Dance Academy in Dubai. His wife, Vinita, stays at Pune alongwith his sons, Rahul and Arjun. Besides serving the U.N. Force in Bosnia, Ashok had also trained in Punjab for some time. 

Ashok was known for his high integrity and efficiency which was evident in his earlier stints in Maharashtra especially in Solapur, where he had brought an inflammable communal situation under control within a few hours. I had spoken to Ashok sometime back when as Commissioner of Police, Solapur, was in the news for bringing to book the local M.L.A who was flouting the law for noise pollution. Ashok had personally gone and arrested the M.L.A. from his residence at mid-night after the M.L.A. had earlier roughed up police officials. I had asked him whether he had really beaten up the M.L.A. He replied that if he had done so, the man would not have survived as though he no longer competed in power lifting but maintained regular exercise regime. It was his conscientiousness, patriotism and devotion to duty which made him the target of the terrorist attack at Mumbai. He was the Additional Commissioner, (East) and even though the area around the Cama Hospital(South) did not fall within his jurisdiction, he had reached there as he had undergone specialized training to handle terrorism and hostage situation. He would lead from the front and was not the kind to send subordinates to do risky jobs. He lived for others and had a proactive approach. He made the supreme sacrifice and attained martyrdom in the battle field and made his family, friends and the nation proud. "

Anupinder Grewal

Additional Advocate General, Punjab (Now Judge, Punjab High Court)

Let us each keep a moment’s silence, wherever we are, to honour of all our alumni. Founder’s Day for the schoo was November 1th. That for our college is 7th December. 


May all these dear ones friends 

Rest In Peace.



Friday, October 06, 2023

Ramu Katakam (1961-1964) Article in The Wire

 


I have blogged an article by our alumni Architect Ramu Katakam (1961-1964) about Indian cities which appeared in The Wire yesterday with my introduction to an old friend. 

He was a close friend of my cousin, Mammen Mathew (Rajen), and late Suresh Mehra,  Azar Siddiqui and Anil Capoor.

Ramu and Rajen hitch-hiked from India to London. That was when I was studying in London.

Hope you enjoy the blog entry.

https://jmatthan.blogspot.com/2023/10/an-important-question-about-indian.html

Monday, October 02, 2023

Sunday, October 01, 2023

KTWV Volume 15 Issue 4: Nandita Narain retires fromCollegeol

 


I studied in College between 1960 and 1963. Principal Sircar was the one who taught me Mathematics along with Professor Nagpal. 

Later Rhodes Scholar Ranjit Bhatia returned after his taking part in the Olympics and joined the Mathematics Department.

When I started Kooler Talk (Web Version) in 1996, I started to hear about a Maths teacher in college who was changing the scenario.

Later I watched her activity on Facebook and other local media as NDTV.

Each report I heard only made me more appreciative of her work.

Now, after a tumultuous career in our college and also in the University of Delhi, Nandita Narain is retiring.

Although I never had the opportunity to meet her personally, I held her in great respect as she always stood by her principles and also what our college stood for.

Her history has appeared in the media so it is not my intention to repeat what has been written about her.

I wait to see what she will do next as she is a firebrand and will not leave the scene quietly. 

Nandita will always stand up for the right against the wrong.

Well played Nandita.

You are always welcome to share your views on this platform as we respect you as alumni and as an  associate of our college. 

Au revoir Nandita, welcome back Nandita.




KTWV Volume 15 Issue 3: New lady Vice Principal

 This entry is thanks to John Dayal from Facebook. Photograph from LinkedIn.


Congratulations Dr. Gabriel

College is likely to soon see the first woman Vice Principal in its long history.  

Dr Karen Gabriel has reportedly been selected for the post at a time when a Delhi University administration is is trying to block the extension given to Dr John Verghese as Principal.  

The governing body of St Stephen’s  College is defying the university move. 

Karen Gabriel heads the English Department at St. Stephen’s College, University of Delhi. She is also Founder-Director, Center for Gender, Culture and Social Processes at St Stephen’s College. 

She has published extensively on issues of gender, sexuality, cinema, representation, melodrama and the nation-state, which are her core research interests. 

Her publications include “Melodrama and the Nation: Sexual Economies of Bombay cinema 1970-2000”, and the edited volume “Gendered Nation”

She is currently working on a book on dystopia, and one on homosociality. 

Her international fellowships and awards include the Digital Fellowship (2021), World Society Foundatio and the Council for European Studies (CES-WSF) at Columbia University, the European Union's International Incoming Marie Curie Fellowship, Scholar in Residence at the College of William and Mary (USA), the Leverhulme Fellowship at the UK, three post-doctoral Fellowships for Gender Excellence at the Centre for Gender Excellence, Linköping University, Sweden, and the Government of Netherlands fellowship for her doctoral research.

Thursday, September 28, 2023

KTWV Volume 15 Issue 2: Living and coping with dementia

 It is heart breaking to live a tragedy unfolding in front of you, day by day. 

This blog entry tells a story of our lives, Annikki and Jacob, as it is today and the history behind it.

As a postscript to this entry, I have added an AI generated essay about dementia.


For the full blog entry please go to:

https://jmatthan.blogspot.com/2023/09/living-and-coping-with-dementia.html


Tuesday, September 26, 2023

KTWV Volume 15 Issue 1: Ineffective Stephanian at the helm


 When Manmohan Singh was the Prime Minister of India, we had a whole lot of Stephanians who were in positions of power as well as an enormous number of bureaucrats who were Stephanians.

Here is a shortlist of those who were in the top echelons of Government at the time of Manmohan Singh:

1. 68er Kapil Sibal - Minister Telecom
2. 73er Salman Khurshid - Minister External Affairs
3. 72er Ashwani Kumar - Minister Law & Justice, Rajya Sabha (Parliamentary Affairs)
4. 74er R. P. N. Singh - MOS Home
5. 76er Shashi Tharoor - MOS HRD
6. 90er Joyti Scindia -  MOS (i/c) Power
7. 97er Sachin Pilot - MOS Corporate Affairs  

What did these Stephanians achieve globally to positively touch the lives of ordinary Indians?

When I attended the Founder's Day event in College in 2014, where the chief guest was Supreme Court Judge Justice Madan Lokur.

(Madan Bhimarao Lokur (born 31 December 1953) is an Indian jurist. He is a judge of the Supreme Court of Fiji. He is former judge of the Supreme Court of India. He is also a former chief justice of the Andhra Pradesh High Court and Gauhati High Court and judge of the Delhi High Court. Lokur was educated at the Modern School, New Delhi. He later attended St. Joseph's College, Allahabad for his ISC examinations. For his university studies, Lokur graduated in history from St. Stephen's CollegeDelhi University with honours. He obtained his law degree from Faculty of Law, University of Delhi.

Justice Lokur said that many consider Stephanians to be elite, but he countered this by saying the largest number of Stephanians in civil service were those who served in the field, influencing the lives of ordinary Indians. 

Both ends of the spectrum are true as when these Stephanians climb the ladder, they lose their touch with the common man and become elitist, something they usually have day to day contact with when they are serving in the lower rungs of the Administration.

I did an entry somewhere on one of my blogs taking to task this group of 7 for not being true Stephanians. 

If I was in their position, I would have had a clear strategy as to how to be effective, Stephanian style.

When I was elected President of the JCR in my second year in college, I formed a team of advisors and we changed the face of our activities in residence by making it totally inclusive.

However, none of these 7 were Trumpian type Stephanians who would do chamchagiri to their political masters. I can accuse them of being ineffective. That is very harsh criticism of our college education!, 

However, when I listened to Subrahmanyam Jaishankar, our current Minister of External Affairs, deliver the first MRF Foundation lecture in the College last year, I was shocked to hear a political speech from the podium.

Later, I have heard him speak on several occasions on several subjects and he praises his Master, oblivious that we Stephanians are watching his antics as a chamcha. I have tweeted him several times on his behaviour!

I do not equate him to Jyoti Scindia who threw his political "principles" to the winds to change his political loyalty.

Watching the spat of Sachin Pilot in Rajasthan with his chief minister is equsally embarrassing for a Stephanian.

Many years ago I did do a blog entry telling Shashi Tharoor not to stand for the Lok Sabha as his character was far above that. Sadly he did not take my advice. 

He had the courage to stand for the position as head of the Congress Party. However, I still hold my view that a person of his calibre would have been far more effective outside of main stream politics.
 I am not concerned with Indian Politics and neither am I likely to visit India again because of age and health issues. 

But I do watch the general deterioration of politics in India with no one willing to change the track.

iIn this sort of situation, we will soon see democracy vanish in India as the sort of behaviour seen by Trumpian type Indian politicians is growing day by day. 

God help My India.